Itâs almost senior year! What an exciting time to get started on the college search!
Iâm getting questions from families about whether itâs too late to launch a full-scale college search right as a rising senior. (Grrrr⊠COVID-19!) (By the way, I used to use the term ârising seniorâ all the time when I was in admission⊠so much so that one kid stopped me to ask, âWhat is a rising senior?â and I had to laugh.)
Anyway, repeat after me: Itâs definitely not too late. Trust me, I used to counsel second-semester seniors who still werenât sure where they wanted to go to school!
For example, meet Grace. She decided during the tail end of her senior year that the school sheâd originally chosen wasnât the right one for her. Terri, her admission counselor at our college, texted and emailed her often, dazzled Grace and her parents during the college visit and connected her with about a dozen people who worked at the college.
Grace could see herself succeeding and thriving and signed right up. She made the best decision ever and is now the marketing director at a regional hospital.
The goal is to make the right decision the first time. If your child wants to transfer, hereâs what happens in an exhausting swoop:
- You have to help your child figure out where to transfer.
- Youâll need to go on visits together all over again.
- Youâll have to cross-check which credits transfer.
- The stress! Itâll involve double the amount of yoga you usually pay for.
Trust me, itâs a headache â and I always think of the student who transferred six times. (Iâm not even kidding.)
This guide will help you get your child prepared for college starting today. Here are the steps I recommend taking.
Contents
- 1. Talk with your student.
- 2. Come up with a plan.
- 3. Sign up for the ACT or SAT. (Or maybe not!)
- 4. Start planning for college visits.
- 5. Have the money talk.
- 6. Communicate with your childâs school counselor.
- English
- Math
- Science
- Social Studies
- Foreign Language
- Arts
- 7. Get your teen excited about scholarships!
- 8. Create your FSA ID.
- 9. Start reaching out to people.
- 10. Have your high schooler update that resume.
- 11. Start those applications!
- Tackle One Task at a Time
1. Talk with your student.
Have as many conversations about college as your teen will allow. Itâs a great idea to get on the same page as soon as possible. You might find:
- Youâre not thrilled about the schools on your teenâs list. Check out how to be happy about your teenâs college choices.
- Together, youâre in total agreement about where your child wants to go to school.
Iâm constantly reminded of my dentistâs experience with her son. She wanted him to look at schools far away.
He ended up looking at one college in town and a university about an hour away. (I havenât had a chance to talk to her to find out where he went.)
Make sure itâs a family discussion! You want to launch the college search with a well-intentioned plan. When you donât have a plan, itâs easy to start bouncing around like a pinball. It might not take too long before you start feeling disorganized with the college search.
2. Come up with a plan.
Whatâs the plan? You might not have any idea, and thatâs okay. But how much better do you feel when you have a plan? I know I do.
In fact, I have an intense personal interest in goal setting. I really like to have specific goals for pretty much everything, whether theyâre daily goals, weekly goals or even goals 10 years from now. Here are some great visit goals you and your child may want to put in place:
- Come up with a short list of schools to visit by July 15.
- Contact admission counselors at each of these schools with your child by July 30.
- Visit those schools in person by October 30 (pending visit restrictions due to COVID-19, of course).
Other things you might want to map out: Application goals. Scholarship goals. Can you think of others?
3. Sign up for the ACT or SAT. (Or maybe not!)
Breaking news! The ACT or SAT might not be a requirement for the class of 2021, thanks to COVID-19. Many admission experts believe that SAT and ACT scores predict academic success less often than high school academic performance. In addition, ACT and SAT scores typically skew favorably toward families with higher income and create opportunity gaps for African American and Latino students.
What does this mean? It means that admission offices could forever change admission entrance requirements. This is big news!
Itâs officially possible to get into half of all Ivy League institutions, high-ranked liberal arts colleges, almost all universities in Virginia and all universities in California without an ACT or SAT score. Harvard University recently disclosed that it wonât require test scores from the class of 2021.
The June ACT test was cancelled, the SATâs next offered test date is August 29, and it remains to be seen whether that test occurs. Check FairTest to find out which colleges require the test, whether itâs optional or flexible for all or many applicants who recently graduated or will graduate from U.S. high schools.
You could also contact admission offices at the schools your childâs interested in to learn more.
4. Start planning for college visits.
How many college visits should you plan for?
Simple! As many schools as your child is interested in. Iâve known students who visit up to 15 schools and others who visit one. My recommendation is to visit one small, one medium and one large school to get a comprehensive overview of all of your choices.
By the way, the goals I listed above will work great! Just adjust the dates as needed:
- Come up with a short list of schools to visit by July 15.
- Contact admission counselors at each of these schools by July 30.
- Visit those schools in person by October 30, pending visit restrictions due to COVID-19, of course.
One question I get a lot is whether your child should visit a school before or after he applies, and the answer is that it doesnât really matter. An application doesnât commit your child to a school unless your child has applied to a college early decision. Early decision (ED) plans are binding. Your student must attend the college if he is accepted as an ED applicant. (The application deadline is usually around November, though schools may have changed their policies due to COVID-19. Make sure you check!)
5. Have the money talk.
College seemed a long way off when your child was a toddler, didnât it? If the years have flown by with not a lot of savings under your belt, thatâs okay. You can still build a financial plan that meets your future needs.
Have you and your child had the money talk yet? It may be time. (Check out 5 Top Tips for Easing Financial Fears About Paying for College.)
I talked with the very talented Ksenia Yudina, founder
Yudina suggests getting your other family members involved, too. âDonât keep your family financial goals and aspirations a secret,â says Yudina. âShare them with grandparents, uncles, aunts, cousins, friends and have them contribute to your childâs savings plan. Dollars invested in your plan will go way further than gifts like clothes!â
She also says to teach your kids the value of money. âWeâve all heard it: âMoney doesnât grow on trees.â It may be a cliche, but it is a good starting point in building a solid set of values in your kids. Getting the balance right can be challenging. Go overboard and your kids could become obsessed with money. Being too lax can lead to kids that donât appreciate the sacrifices you have made, and that donât know how to budget or spend money wisely,â Yudina adds.
Itâs a good time to talk about loans â how you feel about them and what they can do for your childâs future.
By the way, if you and your child will need to borrow, thereâs good news for student loan borrowers. Federal Direct student loans may continue to dip for student borrowers. The Federal Parent PLUS loan and private student loans may continue to lower.
6. Communicate with your childâs school counselor.
Are classes ready to go for this fall? (You know, despite that uh⊠abrupt end to junior year?) Make sure you and your child touch base with your teenâs school counselor. You can share which schools your childâs looking at to make sure your childâs classes are right on track. Hereâs a general guide â but check with the colleges on your childâs short list:
English
Itâs highly recommended to take four years of English classes, so encourage your high schooler not to skimp on that last year of literature! Any class where your child will study writing and literature is a bonus because just about every career will require your child to write well. English classes also encourage reading, analysis and communication skills.
Math
Same for four years of math! Your child might find that sheâs more successful in college if she takes four (not just three) years of math. Itâs easy to forget certain concepts and a bit of momentum if your child doesnât carry on through year four. Math classes should include at least four of the following six classes (in order):
- Pre-algebra
- Algebra
- Geometry
- Algebra II or trigonometry
- Precalculus
- Calculus
Science
Itâs okay to squeak by with three years of laboratory science classes but a fourth year is still a bonus. Make sure your childâs taken the following:
- Biology
- Chemistry
- Physics
Social Studies
Most colleges require two years of social studies, like world history and U.S. history. Other social science options include:
- Government
- Sociology
- Geography
- Psychology
Foreign Language
Lots of colleges require a minimum of two years of language study while in high school, and it doesnât matter which foreign language your child chooses to study.
Arts
A small number of colleges require one year of visual or performing arts prior to admission.
Next, take a look at your childâs credentials with the school counselor and learn the collegesâ admission rates, median GPAs and SAT and ACT scores.
- Does your child have a reach school on his list? A college should be considered a reach for your kiddo if his test scores and GPA are below (or at the lower end of) what a college typically accepts.
- Does his GPA align with that of accepted students at colleges? Bingo! Youâve identified a target school!
- Finally, a safety school is one that accepts a high percentage of applicants. Your childâs GPA and test scores go above and beyond the qualifications for a safety school.
You may want to start a handy spreadsheet to identify these schools and continue to add to the list. The college and career counselor at your childâs school might be able and interested to help you add to the list. When colleges visit your childâs high school, many of them take time to sit down with the school counselor and help them understand what that school offers.
Hereâs a quick checklist of conversation topics you can bring up with your childâs school counselor:
- High school schedule for senior year
- AP or college credit classes
- Colleges on your childâs radar and any others that the counselor would recommend
- College admission questions
- College application timeline questions
- Scholarship and financial aid options â particularly local scholarships
7. Get your teen excited about scholarships!
Donât forget to ask about local scholarships when you talk with the school counselor. School counselors are the first people many local businesses alert when they decide to create a scholarship. For example, letâs say a local dentist creates a scholarship for students who plan to go into dentistry. The dentist usually calls up the school and the call gets transferred to the school counselor.
The College Board also offers a scholarship search tool you and your teen can look at together.
Finally, donât forget to check into the numerous scholarships available at just about every college in the United States. Youâll want to ask detailed questions about scholarships and how to get them when you do your visits. You donât have to wait until visits, though. You can do lots of research now. Call or email the admission office and ask about scholarships so you know what to expect.
Itâs never, ever too early to start applying for scholarships. Summer before senior year is a great time to make that happen.
8. Create your FSA ID.
Whatâs an FSA ID? Itâs a username and password you must create if you want to file the FAFSA. It gives you access to Federal Student Aidâs online systems and can serve as your legal signature.
Now, you canât officially file the FAFSA until October 1, but you can still create your FSA ID. Put âfiling the FAFSAâ on the calendar! Youâll also need to gather up the following:
- Social Security numbers for you, your studentâs other parent and your student
- Alien Registration numbers (if youâre not U.S. citizens)
- Your federal income tax returns, W-2s, and other records of money you earn, ,though you may be able to transfer your federal tax return information into your FAFSA using the IRS Data Retrieval Tool. This makes pulling in information from your FAFSA really simple.
- Bank statements and records of investments (if applicable)
- Records of untaxed income (if applicable)
9. Start reaching out to people.
Reach out to an admission counselor, financial aid officer, coach â even if visits arenât officially happening right now. Call admission offices and ask whether you and your son or daughter will be able to visit with these people using tech options. Make a list of questions you and your high school junior would like to ask, including:
- What are the majors and minors the college offers?
- What are the results we can expect after majoring in X? Whatâs the employment rate/graduate school acceptance rate?
- How are semesters divided up? Do you have a May term or traditional semesters?
- What are the opportunities within athletic programs?
- What are your social and extracurricular opportunities?
- How does my child get plugged into internship opportunities?
- Whatâs the total cost of attendance? How much financial aid do students at your school typically receive?
- Whatâs campus life like (including meal plans and housing)?
- What are your admission requirements?
- Can you explain the application process (including whether that will change due to COVID-19)? When are your application deadlines?
These questions are just the tip of the iceberg! I could literally think of hundreds. Itâs so important to start building relationships during the college search. Learn more about why building relationships must happen during the college search.
10. Have your high schooler update that resume.
This is a great exercise because it may be necessary for college applications and it also helps your child build his elevator speech for college interviews.
Many colleges encourage your high schooler to interview with an admission representative or alumnus during the application process, either on campus or in the area in which you live. The interview is an important part of the application process for some schools and certain colleges and universities even have a very specific timeline for them. This may have changed during COVID-19, so add that list of questions for the admission office: âWhere, when and how will admission interviews take place?â
You may want to help your child proof his resume before he ships it off to schools.
11. Start those applications!
This is the slowest summer on record and now that everythingâs cancelled (no baseball games, no summer camp counseling duties!) your child might find some quiet time to sit down with several applications.
Check with each college your student is interested in and find out about each collegeâs application deadlines.
Target applications at schools your childâs reasonably sure heâs interested in. Remember, in most cases, applying to a college doesnât mean your high schooler must commit to a school. Think of college applications kind of like sending a resume to jobs. Apply if thereâs a serious interest!
Tackle One Task at a Time
Feeling overwhelmed by whatâs on your rising seniorâs plate? Itâs okay. Itâs okay to feel like youâre behind because you werenât able to get to go on college visits this past spring. Your child may even be feeling down in the dumps because he missed out on junior year track â and therefore couldnât boost his times for college coaches.
Just remember that everyoneâs in the same boat. Take a look at the list of goals you put into place during Step 2 and put some time into crossing off each item on the checklist. Also, donât think you have to take on all these steps in the order Iâve listed them. Your child might want to tackle all of his applications first â and thatâs great!